My husband is 55. He has a good job working for the county we live in. We have been married for 14 years. He has a grown son that has been to prison for drugs. He is out on parole and has no job, not trying to get a job. Lives in a camper at father inlaws house. I have two grown children. A son who is single, works every day and takes care of himself. A daughter who is grown with one child and one on the way. Finishing her college and in a good place in life. I do not work after being laid off. I spend my time working around our house and taking care of day to day chores, gardening, yard work and cooking.
The problem we have is my husband goes into the moods of being rude and belligerent to me and everyone around him. He won't go to work, won't call in and goes to bed and sleeps. He has now been in bed for 4 days. Very little to eat or drink. Sleeps day and night. Seems angry when I try to talk to him. We have had our issues with me not wanting him to help his deadbeat son. I don't know what to do anymore. He gets in these sleep moods about once a month. Please help me understand and what I should do.