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Old Apr 01, 2015, 10:54 AM
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At this point you can only control how you "view"/think about this situation. What you describe about your father is awful - but ruminating on this is not going to help you. It will take some time - hopefully not as long as it took me.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany

“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
Thanks for this!
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