I have a sex question. I have given head before in the past and had bad experiences with it. I recently let myself go allowing myself to give my boyfriend head freely which shocked him but I have given it to him in the past once in a blue moon. Now, I feel comfortable giving him head on my own terms not being forced or pushed into giving him which he has never pushed me.

I am wondering how do I give him a good bj? When I was giving him one, felt like it was taking a long time for him to cum. What are some good techniques for giving a good bj?