Angela, I don't think he wants to understand. This is not saying that he is mean or anything, it is just that he has found it easier to say "I don't understand you" then to try to find the empathy it takes to understand this problem. It would mean him having to face feelings in himself that he is not yet ready to face. I understand this. But to try to talk to him about it will be hurtful in that I will not get what I need from him to heal and will probably be expecting something he can't give. I think it is up to me to let go of the need to please other people to this extreme. I just am having troubles doing it. It is usually done on the subconcious level. On the bright side I have been able to talk it out here and recognise what it is I am doing. I may still be cutting but I have made some sort of progress. This is a good thing.

My Bunny Lady,
You did make me smile. I imagined what it would be like to hold a soft little bunny and it made me feel good. Are there truely limits with bunnies?

Tomi:
Was thinking some more about your dream interpretation. I made me think that SI must be the equipent that isn't adaquate. But now my husband is home and talking to me so I have to go.
Talk to you all later,
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