Since last year I currently work two part time jobs and I am working on my masters. I pay the small bills because I only work part time. He pays the house payment and my tuition because he makes a lot more money. Starting this January my family has paid my tuition because he refused and I wasn't quitting the masters program 4 months prior to finishing.
In the beginning I would ask him to help fold laundry and help clean the house. Help clean house meant picking up part of the bedroom and putting his things away. He has a habit of throwing things right on the bedroom floor and leaving them there for a week until I picked them up. He would do it but I could tell it wasn't something he wanted to do. We would share the cooking. This was all in the five years. Yard work he would cut the grass and I would trim the bushes.
We have three dogs. I would always feed the dogs and pick up their bowls and take them for walks.
Then the first week of February. He came home and told me I had to leave. I did. Thinking it would be for a couple of days. Well it was a month.
He never told me why he was so angry with me. In March is when he told me that when we got married he wasnt supposed to be doing anything that I was supposed to do the "WIFE DUTIES" because he made more money he isnt supposed to do anything.
There were times he came home and I didnt have dinner made. I would ask if he wanted to go out and eat. Or maybe he wanted to cook.In March he then said I made him feel worthless because I didn't cook seven days a week, and all I wanted to spend money we didn't have (I don't spend any of his money except for on tuition) I have never wrote a check or do I have an ATM card.