I can't agree more. It is seriously epidemic in our society that this happens often. It has been my experience that people are prone to spill the beans....as in "fishing" for information. Something to "talk about" as interesting conversations. I see this as people "connecting?" social media, instantly accessing private information....how honest is anyone? I wonder...

Just had this experience happen in the "fam" maybe there is something about the old saying: "Familiarity breeds contempt" but for who?

Supporting OP in the most empathetic way...because been in the same position.
Limit contact and information, and I remember how shamed it felt, because after all it was "a parent, sibling, friend, ...." soften your heart to yourself, take some time to heal the hurts...carry on taking care of that tender soul.

be well
Jade