Well, the fact that you stated that you only date top notch women, and it could be that over time you are finding that these girls just arent the caliber you are looking for. You should not feel the need to settle for someone that isn't what you want just because you are lonely or something. But at the same time, it could very well be that the pursuit is fun. Hell Ill agree that its fun, but at the same time i would limit y pursuits to women i could actually see myself being with.