I'm sure you can send a box inside a bubble envelope. The question arises about what the customer is charged. Which could have potential to null the sale and void your account, but I haven't sold on ebay in years. The customer may or may not complain, which is the uncertainty.
Your friend may have posed concern trying to prevent you from future struggles. Not sure. That you may need to ask him directly.

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