I'm sorry honey, I wish that I can help. My alters sit here and talk to my family and I'm accused of "falling out of character", faking it, acting, Lol. Omg. Whatever. I think since its "mom", you can't relax, they can't relax. Alters, unless they're feeling like it, just might not come front. And then again there are those that just don't want to stop!

Whatever happens hun, it's going to be all right.