I don't think I'll ever be able to show my new T my SI. She overreacted when I told her relapsed and I lost my trust.

With my old T I didn't like her seeing them because like IDM, I felt they were never good enough. Sometimes I found myself SIing more because I wanted them to be "enough" as she started making me show her.

Since I cut on my arms mostly and rarely on my hips, I have not needed to do photographs but that's a good idea. Plus through email, you aren't there while their looking,making it less embarrassing.