I'm very overweight but for some reason I just accepted it. My sister was also overweight but not as big as me but had so many problems with self esteem and self worth. My heart breaks that there are people out there that judge another person's worth by their waist size and that there are people who take those judgments to heart and devalue themselves.

I truly believe a person can be beautiful at any size. I'm sorry for the pain this is causing you.