I am 23, turning 24 in days and I have never been with to the gynecologist either, although I have been with men (8 of them, to be exact). My mom has never really nagged about me going, but both she and my older sister says I should. In the country where I live though all women are "called in" to the gyno when they turn 25, to check for cervical cancer (much the same way you get dentist appointments every year in the mail when you are young, at least you do here, with a time and you just have to call to change it if it doesn't fit). So now I am thinking I can maybe wait until then, it's not really that I fear going but more that I don't really see the point of it.