Hi Fuzzy, maybe someone NOT in your position might have disagreed, I don't know............some people find it easy to judge and a lot harder to understand.
But from "but I still supported her as best I could".........I'd say you should feel proud of yourself
In fact "filling in the blanks" it sounds like you did way more than you "should" under the circumstances??!!!
Still we know that you're such a thoughtful, considerate person!!!!

And "Just thinking of all and wishing well ...... wishing for positive energy into the Universe "

Alison