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Originally Posted by sidestepper
She sounds manipulative. It is not right of someone to hold another hostage by emotional threats, tell her if she is serious you will call 911 for assistance or take her to a hospital. Do not allow her to continue trying to hold you responsible for her feelings.
I've been suicidal before but I've never and no one should be using suicide to manipulate another person. If it were me I would call 911 and tell them what she is doing and tell them you are concerned she will follow though if she doesn't get what she wants( a relationship with you) and let them deal with her. Tell her you will no longer listen or talk to her if she is going to threaten you.
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I actually got angry at her when she told me because I thought it was just some childish immature way for her to get me to feel sorry for her. So I immediately went off on her and told her that she was being abusive. (Might not have been the best thing for me to do.) But then I thought to myself "Okay what if she really is serious?" So I told her I was going to call the cops. She said she regretted admitting that suicidal thought to me. I dont know. This girl needs help. I don't want her to do something stupid and leave me feeling guilty for the rest of my life.
I mean, i've felt really sh*tty after break ups but I dont sit there and recite my miserable depression on the other person!