Can you and your son move in with your family for right now? You already know he's looking to record your losing it just to make sure he gets custody..

So you can, as a Mom realize your marriage is over ,Can't imagine your marriage doing a 180 and being supportive at this point, So move out to protect yourself and your son.

Take charge , Don't just wait around for him to make the next move. You need to be a step ahead. Talk to your T and Pdoc about ensuring your abiblity to show proof that your capable of having your son, Speak to an attorney or legal aide to find out what steps you need to take so that your husband can't accuse you "being crazy and kidnapping your son"

Get information and get outta that house. Take charge.. Act instead of react .

Stay safe