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Originally Posted by divine1966
I had to go back and reread what you posted in attempts to understand.
First you said he kicked you out because he is tired of paying all bills. Then it was because you don't cook. First you said you pay all bills besides mortgage then you stated you pay very little, you said you keep two part time jobs. Since you have no credit card and no car and don't pay for school what happens with money from two jobs? I am not saying you are lying it just seems you don't know what's going on in your own home!
Now was it necessary to quit job while getting masters? I always maintained my full time job while getting masters. My daughter is in masters program and works full time. If she quit her job her husband wouldn't be able to support them both. Did you ever discuss him supporting you? Was it your decision?his? Both?
You said he is tired of feeling like your father not husband. I am not excusing him he is a bad partner but you do come across as very young or perhaps coming from culture where women have no voice? Even you signing your rights off sounds like something either very submissive women do or very young?
You don't sound as a grown woman who is almost done with graduate degree. You do sound as younger girl fully dependent on her man ( I don't mean just money wise) is that what he is referring to feeling as your father?
Also if you have no time for anything and have no money why THREE dogs?
Why are two of you married? You seem to not benefit from it with the exception of him paying bills and you doing laundry etc I don't understand what's the value of this marriage, he is gone on
The weekends not communicating you were gone he wouldn't even answer the phone. Why are you trying to save something that is kind of non existent?
What's your degree in?
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At first he did say he kicked me out because he paid the bills (mortgage & tuition). I from day one have paid the small bills electric, gas, cables, etc....We have no other bills at all. Yes because he pays the two bills above that's when he mentioned that he is like a father. If I didn't work we would be financially fine. He wanted me to quit my job because he didn't like the hours. I was getting off at 7pm. I took it upon myself to get another job. One of my part time job is coaching at a college. This job is approximately four months. Degree is in Kinesiology, with a secondary in teaching.
As time went on he said he kicked me out because I did not provide a hot meal on the table when he got off work. I do take full responsibility for signing the papers regarding the house. All my fault for not asking.
He claims he's still mad because of the dinners not being cooked seven days a week. That's the reason he is giving me.