hi gigimaw
i agree with candc that your husband my suffer from some kind of mood issue that shoulld be evaluated. even going to a medical doctor would suffice to see if there isnt anything medically wrong contributing to the issue. if not, are you able to set some boundaries of what you are able to tolerate to continue this relationship? welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome