Well I have a friend not returning phone calls or emails...I left this email...it is not an easy email to write...

(persons name),

I'm guessing that since I haven't heard back - I must have done something wrong or upset you in some manner...

You have always been straight forward with me....I would appreciate if you could tell me...so I can make it right.

If I done something that has put you over the edge and you can't talk to me anymore...I'm really sorry as I value you as a friend...

If this is the case I will stop calling and emailing you...as I don't won't to feel like I'm harassing anyone.



Anyway I believe in direct assertive communication...before assuming or writting someone off...just a thought.