In the end, I learned a huge lesson of self worth and standards. Also, I assume him that personality disorder can't be helped without coming to terms with his behaviors. It seemed like the tug of war game... it's all about control and testing the boundaries, like how deplorable can he be at one moment and then "win" me back in the next.

I might be a lot of things, but I am not someone's personal "plaything" to use and abuse.