My T. is self employed and I have her cell phone. She didn't necessarily "give" it to me - I think she called me from it to set up an appt and it's listed as an emergency number on her work voicemail. So, I now text the cell for appts but nothing else. Well, sometimes I'll find something funny and text her but I never expect a response and rarely get one. She doesn't give out email although I know it due to other people I know at her second job.

She has strict boundaries and isn't the greatest at responding anyway. BUT, I know if I called and left a message that an emergency happened, she would call me back.