I thank you for asking these questions, b/c I too am trying to sort them out especially in finding which ones are mine in there as well b/c many contradict each other and I become such an emotional mess.... I have been testing limits with them too, kinda trying to affirm my role and control... but scares me at times b/c I am afraid of getting in lost in them.... I have learned three of their names and distinguished their roles fairly well along with slowly gaining their memories.... This part of my mental health I am not very open about with other pple and this is the most I believe I have written here about it.... my youngest is surfacing a lot and working on nurturing her...