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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
This whole wife duties thing, reminds me of my cat playing with a mouse just before he eats it...
The house is on his name, and he purposely set out to make you believe it was yours too.
He asked you to quit a job when he didn't like the hours, and 7pm isn't even unreasonable...
He wanted a baby, knowing you're completing your masters, when that didn't work, he stopped paying for it, when that didn't work, he kicked you out.
And much to his benefit, you returned all submissive and willing to do whatever he wanted.
He is exercising his control at every turn, attempting to trap you in unemployment and premature motherhood, then blaming you for everything that goes wrong, to make you dance to his tune....
Hate to break it to you, but your husband is displaying all the traits of my ex bf, who was an abusive butthole.
For 5 years I didn't know he was grooming me to suffer his abuse, I quit the jobs, spent more time with him, behaved in a more domesticated manner, even dyed my hair black and kept it straightened because it was what he preferred...
The end of year 6, when he realized my independence was going nowhere no matter how much I entertained his whims, he mistook me for a punching bag.
I hope to God I'm wrong, I do.
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I didn't think getting off at 7 was bad. He didn't like being home without me. I thought because we were newlyweds.
This here is true. He wanted a baby, knowing you're completing your masters, when that didn't work, he stopped paying for it, when that didn't work, he kicked you out.
I left this morning to see a friend for the weekend. He's having a couple friends over for tonight then they leave for a class tomorrow. I was going to stay and make dinner for them. Then decided not to. He was sad that I wasn't at least staying tonight then leaving tomorrow when he did. No ma'am. I'm gone and will return Sunday night sometime.
Yesterday, I visited a friend. I didn't respond to a text message right away and I got another and another. He wanted to know where I was (it was about 930pm). I told him and he started calling. The minute I begin to ignore him he was texting and calling. Amazing how the tables are turning. I will not text or call him this weekend. If he calls me I will answer when I feel the need to. Let's see how he likes it.