Hello and welcome to Psych Central (((losing-hope)))!!! It's nice to meet you. You said you think your boyfriend is getting sick of you not being intimate with him. So you don't actually know this for a fact I'm guessing. Some guys believe it or not find it refreshing to find a woman who is not throwing themselves at them. I have to say I agree with Kaliope on this one. If a guy really cares about you he will wait on you. If he is not willing to wait he is not worth your time. You may want to discuss it with him and let him know where you stand. I know that's not as easy as it sounds because you don't want to lose him. If he understands your anxiety however it may make him more understanding so that he doesn't think you're not attracted to him or that you're toying with him.