The main reason I have told friends is their comments about how I've changed. My close coworkers know because I have a standing appt on Mondays. And most people know it's due to my moms death and that she had alcohol/drug problems.

I see it as a positive and many people have said how they wish they could go. I've also had several friends enjoy hearing what I've learned because they can relate to the way I interact with others and the ways I've become a better mom. Ironically the people who I tell are a lot like me (since I chose them as friends) and also have a hard time expressing their feelings.

I haven't had one negative reaction. And, if they did, they wouldn't be my friend anymore. I was prepared to lose friends due to my changes and have lost one.