Granite, i really think the main point is where the adults failed their responsibilities and it fell on us. It took me a long time to be able to really clearly list things. Like years. My t didnt know the truth, how could he? - i had to figure it out myself. That was my major work in t for a few years. It was weird because it feels made up, but its like reading a detective novel - if you go back and check the clues, like no babysitting (and they were WEIRD about it!), it adds up.

I get that your chain of events is different from what happened to me.

Rainbow - my t said even adults telling inappropriate stories can be csa.