This has little to do with, overall, his choice of partners. It was discussed but that's not what this is about on the larger scale - its a minor element. The evidence is growing that his mind was poisoned by a "psychologist" of dubious qualifications. It is a definite fact that sometime within the past month my appointments with him have taken a total turn for the worst. I looked up guidelines they are to follow and as an example of just one failure, he has no outline or plan as to how to deal with or treat any of the problems I have either short or long term. when I first went to him he discussed various possibilities but the past few times he says very little, spends a great deal of time distracted on his laptop, and when I mention my despair over my son he just says "its sad it has to be that way" - his job in part at least is to try to find help or solutions - he's clearly not looking as he's said basically "there is nothing we can do". As long as people are able to keep an open mind and communicate/talk there must be hope however small. My alarm bells are going off - quietly at first but now without a doubt loud and clear.