You didn't fail. You just don't have strong coping mechanisms to replace it. Taking away a coping mechanism without replacing it leaves us vulnerable to the ones we're used to that we know work for us.
You're just trying to survive. ((hugs))
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“It's a funny thing... but people mostly have it backward. They think they live by what they want. But really, what guides them is what they're afraid of.” ― Khaled Hosseini, And the Mountains Echoed
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