Hi,

I'm just really happy that so much is working out for you! Many people in recovery exert a great deal on control. My theory is that we used to try and control our buzzes so much that without the booze, we place that control elsewhere. You and your former sponsor can be subject to this.

I'd just giver her benefit of the doubt and assume she cares, then I'd live and let live. Keep her at a comfortable distance and think about the control that others might be exerting in their recovery. You're in a good place to recognize your own challenges with control. Just continue being gratious and moving forward.

So happy!

moogs