I've been angry with my T. many times and told her all about it. It's frustrating for her because I can leave ok and then I come in PISSED off. We have talked and talked and it got a lot better. A lot of it was my negative transference and I think somewhat me setting my boundaries.

I think it's really good to talk about it and it can even make your relationship stronger. But, you both have to be willing and it sounds like you are.