Good heaven I couldn't deal with any of that sunrise. Wow! The most my T has done is to be about 5 minutes late a few times. I think if he ever answered the phone I'd walk out. A couple of times his phone has rung because he forgot to turn the ringer off, but he immediately silenced it and apologized. He's never eaten or anything like that. But it's not like it's a big formal atmosphere. That's just not part of the norm there.

But in answer to the original question, I remember my T hurting me by cutting me off when I was repeating something. He had asked for clarification and I couldn't figure out what was unclear, so I sort of said the same thing again differently. And he stopped me because he'd already gotten that part. That happened a couple of times and I felt stupid and that was painful. Later on I did tell him that though., and we talked about it and he asked me to make him aware in the moment if he had done something like that so that he could work on it. I promised to do that. Naturally it hasn't happened again though.

So yeah I'd say talk about it! It's helpful and I felt closer to him afterward.

Sidony