I started developing psychological and somatic problems after my Dad died when I was 21.
I feel that my therapist thinks my problems are all about my mother and thatīs what she always leads to conversation to. I realize that itīs a problem, her being an alcoholic etc,
however, I feel that I really need to talk about my Dad more, about what it means to have lost him so young, and under those circumstances and grief.
I never talked about this to my mother or sister so I feel there is definitely a need.
Itīs strange that my T doesnīt seem to see that, because I suppose it is obvious.
Should I try more to talk to her about my Dad or resign and find a therapist who can see this importance on his own?
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