I hope you don't mind me chiming in to answer you

It reads to me that your Ts touch signified her caring and compassion for you at the times when you were vulnerable. I'm wondering if it's the fact that she is no longer showing the physical act of caring or the fact that she's removed the touch which is causing so much pain for you?

I know I really don't like people touching me but actually would be ok with my Ts touch in those circumstances, however if she suddenly stopped something without discussion I would be broken and the trust would be shattered. I just think that suddenly taking something away can feel so much like punishment even when it isn't meant that way and even when people explain over and over that their intention was never to punish, it can seem that's what the message is.

I can certainly see why you are feeling this way, I would be too. How you proceed is up to you but I think your T should understand that she has handled this pretty poorly to be honest and you are going to need time to figure out how to rebuild your trust.