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Old Apr 05, 2015, 02:43 PM
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I'm sorry that you're having such a hard time - and that the breakup seems to have came from no where. Did she explain to you why she was ending things?

Every relationship in my life that has ended has came as a surprise, and with my partner not telling me anything at all about what was going wrong. None of them have ever talked about issues, brought anything up, nothing. The confusion makes it really hard to move past.

But, even though you didn't see it - things weren't perfect two weeks ago. Your ex had something that was bothering her, she just wasn't respectful enough to share it with you. Alternately, she tried and you missed it as she wasn't clear enough.

You're right to acknowledge that the best thing you can do is respect her wishes for having no contact. Delete all your contact information for her, and that will at least make it harder for you to keep bothering her.
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