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Old Apr 05, 2015, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted by musinglizzy View Post
i feel better about myself when I'm cared about, because it shows me I must be worthy of it... my T is well aware I don't feel like I'm worth the air that I breathe. I know it shouldn't, but her doing this only enforced that feeling. That's MY problem I know I have to deal with.
This sounds like youre being retraumatized by the t. My prev t was kinda like this - i think they figure that if we are in enough pain, we will eventually drag ourselves out of it. But it just kept dragging me down until i lost my job, lost my apartment, lost my friends, lost my place in the world. We have to experience love before "tough love" should be tried as a solution.

Are you open to finding a new t if she continues to refuse to talk about this? Have you tried talking to a consult t about it?
Thanks for this!
guilloche, Sawyerr