I am a bit overweight, my breast sag, big butt, strech-marks, never seem to be able to find the right haircut, I am a red-head and my skin is always pale and freckled... all these things I dont like about myself. But strangely enough I am told by guys that they like my body because it is feminine, and they find my strech-marks to be sweet since they show that I am a mom and that I should be proud of them. (single girls date, that would be me). And while it is true that some people seem to think it is ok to look down on overwheight people, just think about all the ones that dont! A lot of people are a lot more into a good personality and a good attitude than what size you wear. And the ones that are judgemental, well, you dont need them nor their opinions! Have you checked out pictures of full-size models? (I dont mean in a sexual way). Look it up on the internet, and see what gorgeous women they are. They wear clothes that fit their body-type, and they are clearly very sexy. And as for losin weight: please dont do it to lose some sizes and please society around you. If you decide to loose weight, do it for your health. Too much weight is not good for your body in the long run. So if you want to lose weight, then do it for the right reason, namely for you and your health.