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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
She remembers everything, this is why this is bizarre. Perhaps she is messing with me and it's working. I am not even sure what's happening anymore...t used to be the best, consistent, challenging and so compassionate and now she tries to wind me up. I still love her though and I can't leave
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I have admitted attachment to my therapist to you before and erotic transference. I had a point when I felt the same way you did. I could not imagine leaving. It took months for me to accept her for what she is, my therapist, a professional I pay to help me straighten out my life. So though I am still with her, I will know when I feel comfortable enough for my therapy to end. Even with my transference, I stay focused on why I am there and I remind myself each time we have a great session, that she is simply doing her job. This has helped me immensely with my transferences. Do you still focus on why you are there? Do you have some defined goals?