Well, he's an adult now Granite, even if he is a bit naive. You have to let him lead. Your job as a mom now is to be supportive, to be there when he needs you, but to let him test his wings, so to speak, on his own. Try not to worry about every little thing. He'll be alright. You don't have to catch him every time he falls - sometimes falling is the best way to learn. Just make sure he knows you'll always be there to help him pick up the pieces.