My BF and I slept together with eachother for the first time last night. He and I were both nervous and he couldn't maintain an erection for very long. No matter how many times I tried to stimulate him manually, and got him hard, he kept going soft as he tried to penitrate me.

He and I weren't virgins before we met, but it had been a while since either of us had sex. He felt embarassed and I really tried hard to comfort him and tell him I didn't think him any less of a man because of his inability to preform.

How can I help him (and myself) fix this problem. He's very shy and really sweet, and I just don't want him to feel bad about this.