I like seders with the right small group but I'm not sociable enough to have that so I skipped it. Not sure why I'm doing the 8 day no wheat, oatmeal, etc thing but I think it's a combo of an ingrained sense of obligation not to let the whole thing die out, a tribal sense of belonging, it seems like a good spring rite, pride in sticking it out???? I really should examine this. Will probably wonder if I should continue it till it's over. As usual.