Have you seen Apollo 13? The bit where they are keeping the capsule steady while it tries to hurtle chaotically through space? That's how I think of T. Keep8ng me steady, focused on an end point while my "chaos" tries to disrupt things. That just came to m8nd when you said about T knowing how to deal with your stuff. Maybe it is purely the steadying /steering that is the key, that allows us to become masters of our own stuff.