I'm not worried about how new T reacts. I already got the sad and disappointed reaction from my mom and step-dad, and the worried reaction from my fiance. I doubt anyone would express anger (well maybe other members of my family, but I don't tell them). I just don't know if I was supposed to tell her already? She said she's NOT available 24/7 atm since she's not my "DBT" T yet. So it's not like there was an expectation for me to reach out to her beforehand. I'm just lost with her. The more I think about it, the less I feel connected to her. I'm hoping?/going to try to get her to allow me to process ex-T. I desperately need that. And that should hopefully help me develop a connection. If not, then I don't think this is going to work. But I'm not sure I can handle that right now.