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Originally Posted by starfishpsy
Fairchild, have you ever met a guy who is not clingy, but fonfident and assertive. I myself avoid relationwhip cause I feel like everybody is leaning on me. However if I meet a girl whos independent, I can see it happening. The problem is, Im 27 and still havent met one
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I think you are going to struggle to find girls like that. You are the man and the one with confidence, assertiveness and independence, you will attract girls who don't have those qualities. The type of girls you describe are few and far between. I think you are telling yourself you seek independent girls, when what you actually mean is confident and assertive like yourself. You will have a hard time attracting girls with the same qualities as you as girls generally go for guys that have qualities that they (girls) lack in some way or another.