I don't know why, but this post upsets me. Not that I murdered anyone....but i think that this discussion belongs between T and client....

As Echoes said, there must be some room for each T's feelings, individuation and conscience here. So, know the state law is one thing but knowing, trusting T is another.

If my T thought I was in danger of seriously harming myself, imminently suicidal, then I would hope he would call my husband.....I have had suicidal ideation and SI issues in the past and he has not called anyone, because it wasn't necessary.

just a thought