For me is more about why someone two-three years out of high school wants someone 5 years younger than him...the difference between 30 and 25 isn't that big of a deal...but when you have an adult trying to date a minor...motives must be questioned...Just want you to be safe and not get hurt.

I was dating a 16 year old when I was 17...I off course turned 18 before she did...but there wasn't a 5 year gap...

I'm just concerned as I had friends who were girls in high school...getting hurt by young adults...in similiar situations...