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Old Apr 06, 2015, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted by monalisasmile View Post
I would think it would depend on what type of attachment. Like if the attachment is secure you woukdnt be dependant on someone but if it is insecure you could be co dependant or not dependant on anyone which both lead to severe problem and difficulties in how we relate to others. I don't know if that helps Soup.
A healthy attachment to our t is desirable but an unhealthy one encourages dependency and dis empowers us.
Dependency is healthy, even in secure attachment. The ability to ask for help when you need it is dependency, and someone with secure attachment doesn't fear or hesitate to ask for help when needed. They feel safe doing so.
Thanks for this!
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