you and your husband are probably going through the empty nest earlier than usual, you can see it coming. he will want more freedom and will have to decide what to do with his time, maybe he just want's something new. in marriages, i think we nee do keep things new and fresh, go out to dinner once in a while. i know my husband and i started seeing a band that a friend of mine is in and it felt great to be out of the house in a fun atmosphere differrent from home. i hope you can get counseling too. good luck