Would you want your child to stonewall their feelings like this? Or would you want them to learn to be open and forgiving and conciliatory? Yeah you can say that i am one to talk because i have built a stone wall between me and my family, but really it was there all along - im just not trying to climb over it anymore and getting shot down all the time. But you are purposely withholding. You are pouting. I can see it from here! Its your right. But thats why you will never get over it. You prefer to hold it to your bosom. You are not hurting your t, you are only hurting yourself. But you know this, right?