I am with you! I also have neglected my teeth. I'm a lot older though but I was told a couple of years ago my teeth couldn't be saved. I just can't get the nerve up to go in and face "that"! Also, I've been mocked by nurses too, but I doubt it would happen in a dentist office. When I used to go to dentists when younger I didn't like it but it wasn't so awful. I would urge you to go. You have many years left with your teeth! Lots of hugs!