Thank you for taking the time to read what i have shared her and for your expressions of empathy. Unfortunately its not so easy to find a therapist that is just right for me or for anyone. I feel that the psychologist I saw may have good credentials education-wise but it ends there. he was initially helpful but then there came a noticeable change and chill in the air. The fact that he continued to see my son knowing I opposed it since I expressly stated that in an email - he continued to do so not even having the decency to respond. Any "professional" who is so clearly not able to represent his patient/client and instead switches loyalties does not belong in the business in my opinion. I will report him not that anything will come of it. i've seen to many times how the industry, whether it be judges or health care cover for each other. Sad but true - however i will do my part and report him anyway.

You would think that if my children truly cared for me they would see the injustice and also question the ethics of this psychologist. They know about conflict of interests in legal matters so surely they can see it also must apply here.

I always find myself fighting these uphill battles alone, incredibly, no matter how obviously I have been wronged beginning with the gang rape I was traumatized by that my mother sought no knowledge of the particulars, she skipped over all that and went right to the blaming and shaming of me. Now I find that I can add others to the list of family who are able to be equally cruel. My ex-husband was no support, he was a male version of my mother.