I think it says a lot that your boyfriend would get involved with someone like that. Love it or hate it, who we associate with does indeed have some sort of reflection on who we are as people.

And, he seems to still not be able to let her go in that he is talking about her in a positive light? WTF?!?! Uhm, she seems to be a bit psychopathic in that she follows people around the country? Befriends your friends?

Sorry to say, but I'd be pretty heavy handed with this one. If he can't/won't see how bad she is, maybe you should seriously reconsider your relationship with him.

This woman has the power to ruin your life and your boyfriend thinks nothing of it? Whoa. (I say this as someone who is willing to go to such lengths....well, you can never underestimate how far they will go. What if you have a child with your BF? Ya, you really do have to think that far into the future when dealing with someone as deranged as this woman coupled with a guy who is in la-la land when it comes to the seriousness of the situation.)